- Drop the bullshit. Drop every grudge you ever held against anybody.. ANYONE. Forgive all those assholes & bitches that fucked you over, I’m not saying you have to talk to them now and act like best friends, just forgive & forget. Drop the beef between you & whoever & turn over a new leaf as they say.
- Short term goals. Have a small driven goal that you want to reach every month. For example, start saving money. Stop spending money on clothes & food. Stop arguing with family/friends. Do that every month and then reward yourself with a little something something at the end of the month. Yahmean?
- Relationships. Don’t go seeking. Be found. If you’ve been single for awhile now, don’t worry about it… wait a bit more, you’re still young (I’m assuming you’re not in your late 20’s or early 30’s.) If you’re tired of being single, maybe you should take the first step & make the approach. After all, you got nothing to lose? Start hitting up parties/clubs/events with friends… & MEET people. & By meet I don’t mean, “Hi my name is _____, alright nice meeting you, okay bye.” I mean take an interest in the person, get to know them, get their number, ask them if they would like to hang out sometime.
- Health. Start exercising on the daily, even if it is only for a short amount of time. Don’t have a gym membership? Fine, take a walk around your neighborhood for 30 minutes or so. Be active, don’t sit at home on your butt and blog or watch t.v all day. Keep a healthy eating style, drop the fast food joints and start eating at home on the regular
- Music. Music is your get away source. If you’re stressing or constantly worrying about little things, listen to music. It’s your escape from the world, drop everything, put the headphones/speakers on blast & just listen.
- Work. Don’t have a job? start looking for one, even if it is only for part time. Make a little money for yourself. Start being independent, stop asking your parents/siblings/friends for money. You’ll start to feel accomplished when you make your own money. Apply to a lot of places, malls, restaurants, starbucks, fast food places(try not to eat there a lot) grocery stores, etc.
If you keep your mindset on at least 3 or 4 of these things, you should be off to a good start for 2012. The only hard part is keeping it up until 2013. =) Good luck.
Happy 2012. Let this year, be your year.
(via heyioane)
